Normally my writing is very scientific and supported with research. This particular post is backed by smaller a degree of science, and a larger degree of experience and “feeling”. Part of the reason why is because the science hasn’t yet been able to describe these things through study. So I will do my best to share with you, how we know the “just right” spots in massage, with less defined language.
Getting the “Just Right” spots.
As practitioners of touch, we practice the ability to “listen” to the body in order to find all the best pressure points. We make it our mission to seek out and find all the small areas of discomfort and extra tension that you didn’t even know you had. It’s a fine art and we are constantly working on refining the ability to find all the just-right spots. Full attentiveness is the only way we achieve the mission – keeping our mind focused on our work is incredibly important to the practice.
So the first step is listening generously – with our touch.
The next step surrounds understanding what we feel. Interpreting the signals of the body and responding accordingly gives you more ingredients for the perfect massage recipe. But what signals are we looking for exactly?
Hungry tissues.
It’s difficult to nail it down to one identifying sensation or feeling. Sensing the “hungry tissues” is the closest I’ve come to being able to describe it succinctly. But what does hungriness mean and does it have a particular sensation associated with it?
Here are my top tips on identifying hungry spots:
- Often you’ll find that there is a different density to these spots. A good number of times, these spots will have greater density than the surrounding tissue and so will be prominent to feel. The problem is, that’s not always the case. In some situations, the hungry spots are actually less dense than the surrounding tissues.
- The tissue responds. This could be the softening of the dense bundles of muscle fibers (fascicles), or it could be the twitching of the local and surrounding musculature.
- The person responds… making a sound of “delicious pain” or taking a deeper breath.
- The texture of the tissue is often different. More than just the density, searching for any “stringiness” or “grittiness” in and surrounding the muscles can prove fruitful.
- The side with less muscle mass! Though we can often be tricked into focusing on the larger side, thinking that it has more tension. Often times the smaller side has more discomfort and just-right spots because it isn’t being engaged as well as the other side.
Now that you have a few things to keep an eye out for in identifying the just-right spots, how do you know when the tissue has had enough work?
The tissue feels “satiated” or full – no longer feels hungry…
Again, something that is difficult to measure, yet when you feel this (and you’re paying attention) it kinda makes sense.
Now – it’s time to test this. Find someone and give them a shoulder massage, and experiment through the lens of “hungry tissues”. Pay close attention and try to identify the “full point” of any just-right spots you find. I’m sure your people will thank you.
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Randi Mori says
Thank you! I have been working on this in my own practice. I’m still in the learning curve of reading the feedback from the tissue, the client and most of all my own fingertips! Great info and tips. I will definitely be incorporating these strategies when laying hands on clients. Thanks Drew for these invaluable resources. Your blogs are like mini workshops!
Much Love, R
Christine Drummond says
I’m just starting my Thai massage practice and working on my developing my touch sensitivity. I’ve been asking anyone that I’m practicing on to let me know when I’m applying pressure on a spot that feels particularly good so that I can focus on that area for a bit and also make a mental note of it for myself. Over time and as I gain more experience, I’d like to utilize my senses so that I’m communicating with the tissues more and relying less on getting that information from my client.